Friday, December 4, 2009

Friendship forever

Friends….the defination is vary. Friends can be those who have fun together, merely know the name and have some basic inkling abt each other, companions, net pals… hmm, that means v have so many friends huh?all the people v know-family – relatives - those u totally “beh tahan”= friends.

FRIENDS- a warm yet alien word. Warm when some1 says:”hey don’t worry, friend ma, sure “chang” u one”; alien when u are just one of the many friends ur friends have, wonder to what extent u mean as a friend to them. Ambivalent isnt it?

Friendship forever, the phrase that is so easily blurted out especially when writtig the autograph, cards, farewell, blablabla. May be to most of the people it is has equal meaning as “hey, take care and good luck” somehow it makes me smirke and ponder if friendship forever really exist meh? The warmth of friendship plummets irrevocably with times, when their life has no interaction at all. Two friends spread the wings and fly to different directions, the “friendship forever” left frozen in the barranca of heart, it is there atc, just oblivious. Out of sight out of mind isnt? People grow up, new friends appear in each other life, substitute the previous ones.

No offend to those who say friendship forever. Even myself ever said that. sincerely mean that at that moment… I cheerish every friendship of coz.The people v know stil are our friends (err, if no “accident” happens in between). Frienship may exist for quite a long period, just the quality isnt the same anymore. People change, that is it. It is like there is no way one can keep the warm water at the same temperature if it is leave untouch in a room.

Wu liao crap?yeah, may be. Plenty of time to splurge in the holiday…XD

4 comments:

  1. It is like there is no way one can keep the warm water at the same temperature if it is leave untouch in a room.

    oooooo, i like this sentence leh, hehe..........

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  2. haha tq. really dislike the people who like to show off how much they care for their friends but dont play their role as friend when needed...

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